You have chosen better
It is never an easy time, it takes BRAVERY and a whole LOTTA, COURAGE.
But, I know you are set out to do it. I know you can embody a new career, date a new person, move to a different country, embrace a new hobby or wear a different hairstyle. This is your chapter to create. You are the creator and the manifesto. And let me tell you, Goddess, you are wildly capable and beyond strong to do it! But first, let me show you it’s possible!
The act of creating a new chapter I have chosen many times. And let me tell you, each time it is hard. The hard bit is not the result of having a new chapter but rather stepping into the new chapter as you let go.
Let me break it down for you a little bit with me as your example.
I hated that I never had friends around me, that no one invested in my services, and how stuck I felt. I then knew that I wasn’t in my dream location because nothing felt like home to my soul. I had to find a home. Before I found the location that made my soul happy there was a HARD period. The way it unfolded was brutal. I remember my brother saying, “You could destroy our family forever”. But, it wasn’t the act of me moving that was the hard part, the HARD part was the act of me choosing to detach from my family’s ways and beliefs for how our family should run. For me, this meant letting go of having connections and ties with my family which allowed me to completely disconnect from our family system of what it means to live. I then adventured out and after moving 4 times I found my home with friends, a thriving career, and continual expansion.
Or, I identified that I didn’t like how I binged alone. After many conversations with my mum, she identified I yearned for companionship. I knew I had to let go of the thoughts that I was boring or a loner. I then began to date and talk to new men. And, through this, I met my now, lover!
Anyway, back to my point.
If you want something to change you have to BELIEVE in yourself, have courage, and be brave. But, beyond this, you must walk your talk.
The general pathway to creating a new chapter will look something like this for you.
You identify something you don’t like.
You identify what you want.
You let go of what isn’t serving you ie friends, a housing location, a carer, etc.
You upgrade and step into your new reality (remember this takes TIME, but it’s sooo worth it).
If you are ready to leap into a new chapter I have a few more tips and tricks I do that I know will propel you forward.
Limit interaction with people. This allows you to decipher what you truly want for new beliefs and patterns you must adopt.
Focus on small actions each day to achieve your goals. Ie Talk to a mentor, walk for 30 minutes, have a hard conversation, walk a different way to work, and spend your night differently.
Embody someone who already has achieved it. This means wearing a suit that displays you already have it.
MINDSET upgrade. Get out of your head, don’t let it tear you a wild way, and leap into the unknown. Hint, your fears are where the magic is, so listen to your fears and do the thing anyway.
You got this sister, you deserve that which you are seeking. Your soul is ready to receive and you have all the abilities to embody this new life. Xx
